PHD, ACS, LMFT (he/him)



I was in my 20’s, my life was headed for disaster and I was on a career path that was not right for me. I was gay and in the closet, and my sex life was a joke.

So, I tried something radical: to go ALL IN and make change happen. I did my own therapy, I read everything I could, and it worked.

Dr Kyle Zrenchik, PhD, ACS, LMFT
Dr Love

For the first time, I enjoyed sex! I discovered this incredible sense of confidence, and others picked up on it. I was enjoying dating, I was finally making real friends, but, more importantly, I made peace with my past and began to build a life I was excited about.

The Couples Erotic Flow

In my graduate studies, and through the thousands of individuals and couples I have worked with, I have honed a path that I call “The Couples Erotic Flow”. It’s a path to improve your emotional and sexual connection and experience more out of your relationship.

By showing you this path, this flow, inside of all individuals and couples, and how to tap into this natural cadence, I can show you how to stop thinking, and start acting.

Kyle Zrenchik

I took my own experience, and infused cutting edge relationship and sex research, as well as best clinical practices to create a simple, yet effective step-by-step plan on how to improve your relationship with yourself, the relationship you have with your mate, and the relationship you have with your inner erotic.

I believe you know what you want your life to look like. I believe you know why you need your life to look that way.

Dr. Kyle Zrenchik is the Co-Founder of ALL IN, the Creator of the Couples Erotic Flow model for treating sexual issues in individuals and couples, Designer of the Deep Dive programs at ALL IN, and is a well-respected couples counselors in the Twin Cities.


PhD – University of Minnesota – Couple & Family Therapy

MA – Lewis & Clark College – Couple & Family Therapy

MS – Illinois State University – Communication

BA- Eastern Michigan University – Theatre Arts


Creator of the Couples Erotic Flow Model

Certified in Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy

Certified Clinical Sexologist

Certified in Discernment Counseling

Trained in Post-Induction Therapy

Minnesota Board of MFT, LPCC Approved Supervisor